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“Trying to Upset Me” meme: meaning, origin and common card

“Ty khotchech menia opiat dovesti, da” (“you're trying to upset me again, aren't you”) is a 2019 Runet meme pairing a blank stare with words taken way too personally.

MyMemeCards editorial teamPublished 9 min read
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The “Trying to Upset Me” meme, 2019

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In MyMemeCards, the meme card game, “Trying to Upset Me” is a common card of the Russian Memes pack, number 211 of the collection, and the 132nd best-known meme of its 300 cards. Here is what the meme means, where it comes from, and how to get its card.

What does the “Trying to Upset Me” meme mean?

The line plays out the theatrical role of the offended victim: people drop it after any remark, even a harmless one, as if it had been aimed deliberately to provoke them. The blank stare that comes with it underlines the comedic gap between the scale of the reproach and how trivial its actual trigger was, turning any minor annoyance into a theatrical false accusation.

Where does the “Trying to Upset Me” meme come from?

The “Ty khotchech menia opiat dovesti, da” meme circulates on the Russian-language internet (Runet) starting in 2019, built around an image of someone staring blankly at the camera after a harmless remark, as if they had just suffered a personal attack. The card tags it as Runet, dated 2019. People reused it to caption situations where a small annoyance gets met with wildly disproportionate indignation, that theatrical reproach becoming the core joke of the format across posts.

How to use the “Trying to Upset Me” meme

  • After a harmless remark taken as an attack: “You're trying to upset me again, aren't you.”
  • As a caption for a blank stare following a misjudged joke.
  • To dramatize a minor annoyance with a falsely wounded tone.

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The “Trying to Upset Me” card in MyMemeCards

Ty khochesh menya opyat dovesti, da card
NumberNo. 211
RarityCommon
CollectionRussian Memes pack
Fame50/100 · #132 of 300
Recycle value5 MemeCoins (15 in Shiny)
Rarities of the Russian Memes pack: 300 cards
  • Common16956%
  • Rare9231%
  • Epic279.0%
  • Legendary93.0%
  • Mythic31.0%

How to get the “Trying to Upset Me” card

Every pack holds 5 meme cards, the first 3 of them Common; Trying to Upset Me comes out of the Russian Memes pack as a common card. The pack odds say what each rarity weighs.

Your first pack is free and needs no account. After that a new free pack lands every 10 minutes, up to 3 waiting for you. You can also buy the card with MemeCoins on the market, bid for it at auction, or trade it — and a double recycles into 5 MemeCoins.

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Odds per card, averaged over a pack: Common 72%, Rare 23.9%, Epic 3.2%, Legendary 0.56%, Mythic 0.3%, Full Art ≤ 0.1%, Shiny 0.2%. Cards 1 to 3 are always Common, cards 4 and 5 climb the rarities. Rates drop for cards that circulate a lot. Details

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Frequently asked questions

What does Ty khotchech menia opiat dovesti mean?

It is Russian for “you're trying to upset me again, aren't you”, a theatrical reproach aimed at a harmless remark.

Where does this Runet meme come from?

From the Russian-language internet starting in 2019, built around a blank stare displayed after a remark taken way too personally.

Why is this meme funny?

Because the gap between the size of the reproach and how trivial the remark was creates the comedic effect.

How do I get the Trying to Upset Me meme card?

Open a pack of MyMemeCards: “Trying to Upset Me” is a common card of the Russian Memes pack. Your first pack is free, with no account, and you can also buy, trade or win the card at auction.

How rare is the Trying to Upset Me card?

It is a Common card. Rarity decides which pack slot can deal it, and what it is worth on the market.

Sources: Résultats YouTube pour « ты хочешь меня опять довести да мем » · checked on October 29, 2026.

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