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“Will It Be Him or Her?” meme: meaning, origin and common card

« Sarà lui, sarà lei » is the refrain of the Neapolitan neo-melodic singer Mario Forte, launched in a gender reveal video.

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In MyMemeCards, the meme card game, “Will It Be Him or Her?” is a common card of the Italian Memes pack, number 236 of the collection, and the 166th best-known meme of its 300 cards. Here is what the meme means, where it comes from, and how to get its card.

What does the “Will It Be Him or Her?” meme mean?

The phrase means « will it be him, will it be her ». It is used when waiting for a result, an announcement or a surprise: a parcel, a decision, an exam grade. The tone is festive, with some Neapolitan variety show pathos.

Where does the “Will It Be Him or Her?” meme come from?

Mario Forte published a gender reveal reel with the song « Sarà lui? Sarà lei? (Baby Shower) ». In July 2023 the comedian Enrico Brignano commented on the video with the word « Pattume », which started a controversy; Nancy Coppola defended Forte and Brignano later apologised. The refrain was reused in parodies, apart from the quarrel.

  1. 2023In July Enrico Brignano comments on Mario Forte’s video, then apologises after the row.

How to use the “Will It Be Him or Her?” meme

  • Before opening the results: « Sarà lui, sarà lei ».
  • Two friends guess what is inside a wrapped gift.
  • A suspense message before a big announcement.

Also searched as

  • Sarà lui sarà lei Mario Forte
  • Mario Forte baby shower
  • Mario Forte Brignano
  • Italian gender reveal meme

The “Will It Be Him or Her?” card in MyMemeCards

Will It Be Him or Her? card
NumberNo. 236
RarityCommon
CollectionItalian Memes pack
Fame40/100 · #166 of 300
Recycle value5 MemeCoins (15 in Shiny)
Rarities of the Italian Memes pack: 300 cards
  • Common14749%
  • Rare9030%
  • Epic3813%
  • Legendary227.3%
  • Mythic31.0%

How to get the “Will It Be Him or Her?” card

Every pack holds 5 meme cards, the first 3 of them Common; Will It Be Him or Her? comes out of the Italian Memes pack as a common card. The pack odds say what each rarity weighs.

Your first pack is free and needs no account. After that a new free pack lands every 10 minutes, up to 3 waiting for you. You can also buy the card with MemeCoins on the market, bid for it at auction, or trade it — and a double recycles into 5 MemeCoins.

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Odds per card, averaged over a pack: Common 72%, Rare 23.9%, Epic 3.2%, Legendary 0.56%, Mythic 0.3%, Full Art ≤ 0.1%, Shiny 0.2%. Cards 1 to 3 are always Common, cards 4 and 5 climb the rarities. Rates drop for cards that circulate a lot. Details

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Frequently asked questions

Who is Mario Forte?

A Neapolitan neo-melodic singer.

What does « Sarà lui, sarà lei » mean?

« Will it be him, will it be her », a gender reveal line.

Why was there a controversy?

Enrico Brignano had commented on the video with « Pattume » and later apologised.

How do I get the Will It Be Him or Her? meme card?

Open a pack of MyMemeCards: “Will It Be Him or Her?” is a common card of the Italian Memes pack. Your first pack is free, with no account, and you can also buy, trade or win the card at auction.

How rare is the Will It Be Him or Her? card?

It is a Common card. Rarity decides which pack slot can deal it, and what it is worth on the market.

Sources: Il Fatto Quotidiano : Brignano si scusa con Mario Forte · Il Sussidiario : Brignano contro Mario Forte · checked on November 5, 2026.

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