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In MyMemeCards, the meme card game, “Selfies at Funerals” is a common card of the Memes World series 74, number 22110 of the collection, and the 53rd best-known meme of its 300 cards. Here is what the meme means, where it comes from, and how to get its card.
What does the “Selfies at Funerals” meme mean?
This meme critiques the excessive ego that drives some to prioritize their public image over the collective dignity of grief. It expresses disgust toward perceived insensitivity, where an individual stages themselves instead of honoring the solemn moment. However, it also reveals cultural misunderstanding: these photos often serve to share sorrow or mark a difficult transition, far from pure narcissistic vanity.
Where does the “Selfies at Funerals” meme come from?
The phenomenon began on October 28, 2013, via the Tumblr blog “Selfies at Funerals,” created by Jason Feifer, then deputy editor-in-chief of Fast Company. The day after its launch, Feifer posted twenty images selected after searching hashtags #selfie and #funeral on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. The Tumblr platform served as a showcase for this compilation of self-portraits taken before, during, or after funerals. The shocking title and careful layout quickly propelled the project into virality. An introductory video features Feifer stating that there are things a man should never do at a funeral, though precise details of this initial broadcast remain unclear. This catalog became the digital symbol of lost social boundaries regarding public grief expression.
- 2013Launch of the Tumblr blog by Jason Feifer on October 28 to document these practices.
How to use the “Selfies at Funerals” meme
- Share an inappropriate photo taken in a solemn context to highlight the absurdity of the situation.
- Use this term to ironically criticize someone constantly seeking attention during serious moments.
- Cite this example to discuss the difference between online grief sharing and pure narcissism.
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The “Selfies at Funerals” card in MyMemeCards
| Number | No. 22110 |
|---|---|
| Rarity | Common |
| Collection | Memes World series 74 |
| Fame | 64/100 · #53 of 300 |
| Recycle value | 5 MemeCoins (15 in Shiny) |
How to get the “Selfies at Funerals” card
Every pack holds 5 meme cards, the first 3 of them Common; Selfies at Funerals comes out of the Memes World series 74 as a common card. The pack odds say what each rarity weighs.
Your first pack is free and needs no account. After that a new free pack lands every 10 minutes, up to 3 waiting for you. You can also buy the card with MemeCoins on the market, bid for it at auction, or trade it — and a double recycles into 5 MemeCoins.
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Odds per card, averaged over a pack: Common 72%, Rare 23.9%, Epic 3.2%, Legendary 0.56%, Mythic 0.3%, Full Art ≤ 0.1%, Shiny 0.2%. Cards 1 to 3 are always Common, cards 4 and 5 climb the rarities. Rates drop for cards that circulate a lot. Details
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Frequently asked questions
Who created the Selfies at Funerals blog?
Jason Feifer, a journalist and former deputy editor-in-chief of Fast Company, initiated this project in October 2013 to catalog these behaviors.
What does this meme really mean?
It generally denounces insensitivity and disrespect toward mourning, although some studies nuance this view by discussing emotional sharing.
Where were the first photos found?
The original images came primarily from social networks Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter, retrieved via specific hashtags.
Do all these photos show contempt?
No, studies suggest many are taken before or after the ceremony to help loved ones navigate grief together.
How do I get the Selfies at Funerals meme card?
Open a pack of MyMemeCards: “Selfies at Funerals” is a common card of the Memes World series 74. Your first pack is free, with no account, and you can also buy, trade or win the card at auction.
How rare is the Selfies at Funerals card?
It is a Common card. Rarity decides which pack slot can deal it, and what it is worth on the market.
Sources: Selfies at Funerals: The Tumblr Blog That Sparked Debate · Selfies at Funerals · How “Blue Steel” Predicted Selfie Culture · checked on October 16, 2026.
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